Happiness Q & A with Daniel Gilbert
22 04 2008We were discussing subjective well-being in class last week. The New York Times has a Q&A with a prominent psychologist in studying happiness.
Daniel Gilbert - Happiness Researcher - New York Times:
Q. AS THE AUTHOR OF A BEST SELLER ABOUT HAPPINESS, DO YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE ON HOW PEOPLE CAN ACHIEVE IT?
A. I’m not Dr. Phil.We know that the best predictor of human happiness is human relationships and the amount of time that people spend with family and friends.
We know that it’s significantly more important than money and somewhat more important than health. That’s what the data shows. The interesting thing is that people will sacrifice social relationships to get other things that won’t make them as happy — money. That’s what I mean when I say people should do “wise shopping” for happiness.
Another thing we know from studies is that people tend to take more pleasure in experiences than in things. So if you have “x” amount of dollars to spend on a vacation or a good meal or movies, it will get you more happiness than a durable good or an object. One reason for this is that experiences tend to be shared with other people and objects usually aren’t.
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Human happiness is simply losing oneself on the intoxication of possibility. I had a great time doing so and so because I wasn’t thinking how uncertain everything is at this particular time. Also it can be losing oneself in thought. Remember the time so and so, I was so happy. Unfortunately there is one thing better, being so self conscious that you forget yourself at all times and are giving yourself in all directions indiscriminately. This, this really is the highest and comes at a bit of a price, too much for most.